So now that we live in a pornographic society where the sexuality of women is draped above us like a holy grail, are we still going to pretend that rape is a man's problem? We have often heard the feminist position that rape is about power and control and not about sex. But sex itself is often about power and control. As much for women as for men. As women's sexuality stands above us like an idol, men's physical force stands above us like a slave's master. Who then will stand up and choose neither? Until we have whites marching for black rights, children marching for adults, women and men marching for each other there will never be justice. Till then, we shall all march for ourselves in a parade of self pity and fear.